Fika's Voice

Until It’s Not

He said, “Everything’s under control,”A mantra meant to calm the soul.With steady hands, composed and sure,He built a life he’d not endure. The signs were there obscure, subduedA glance, a pause, a shifting mood.But we, too wrapped in daily pace,Missed all the cracks beneath his face. He bore the weight no man should bearAlone, unseen,

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We Ignored His Prophetic Warnings, Now They Live in Our Regret

The Weight of Unheard Truths There is a particular kind of grief that comes not just from loss, but from realization, the slow, crushing understanding that someone was telling you the truth all along, and you didn’t fully listen. It’s the agony of hindsight, the way their words, once dismissed as confusion or exaggeration, now

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Silenced Forever: Why We Must Speak for Men Who Died Without Being Believed

He Tried to Tell Us, But We Didn’t Listen: How Families Silence Men in Distress When a man finally gathers the courage to speak about his pain, the response is often not just indifference, it’s outright disbelief. Families, conditioned by societal biases, frequently dismiss his suffering, assuming he must be exaggerating, lying, or even causing the problem.

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Silenced by Stigma: Why Some Male Victims Never Get Justice

When a man dies under suspicious circumstances especially in the context of an abusive relationship, his death is often met with skepticism, indifference, or outright dismissal. Society struggles to reconcile the idea of male victimhood, particularly when it comes to domestic violence. Law enforcement, media, and even families frequently downplay or ignore red flags, chalking

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The Deadly Physical Toll of a Toxic Marriage on Men

We’ve all heard the saying ‘love conquers all,’ but what happens when love or loyalty, or fear keeps us trapped in a relationship that’s slowly destroying us? Toxic relationships don’t always start that way. Often, they begin with hope, passion, or deep emotional connection. But over time, manipulation, control, and emotional erosion take hold. Many

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